下一頁直到幸福

作者: awendy (i may day2005阿信) 看板: P_a_wendy
標題: Dorothy Law Nolte(1954)
時間: Fri Jun 10 13:30:24 2005

幼兒的行為
以意志力、動作、遊戲為工作中心
意志力的本質是本能、衝動、欲求、動力
因此，
孩子不能與人分享不是自私，也不是小器，
是因為發展，我們千萬不能因此責怪



如何幫助孩子成長
愛就是了解


在譏評中長大孩子 苛於責人

在敵對中長大的孩子 常懷敵意

在嘲笑中長大的孩子 畏首畏尾

在羞辱中長大的孩子 過於自責

在容忍中長大的孩子 學得忍耐

在鼓勵中長大的孩子 懂得尊重

在公平中長大的孩子 有正義感

在安全感中長大的孩子 對人人信賴

在接納與愛中長大的的孩子 懂得愛人



在愛的環境中成長的孩子,
他們將會是快樂又健康


"Children Learn What They Live"
Dorothy Law Nolte (1954)

Children
Learn What
They Live
If children live with criticism
they learn to condemn.
If children live with hostility, they
learn to fight.
If children live with fear, they
learn to be apprehensive.
If children live with pity, they
learn to feel sorry for themselves.
If children live with ridicule, they
learn to feel shy.
If children live with jealousy, they
learn to feel envy.
If children live with
encouragement, they learn
confidence.
If children live with tolerance,
they learn patience.
If children live with acceptance,
they learn to like themselves.
If children live with recognition,
they learn it is good to have a
goal.
If children live with sharing, they
learn generosity.
If children live with honesty, they
learn truthfulness.
If children live with fairness, they
learn justice.
If children live with kindness and
consideration, they learn respect.
If children live with security, they
learn to have faith in themselves
and in those about them.
If children live with friendliness,
they learn the world is a nice
place in which to live.


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